I know what you're talking about man. I can see where she is coming from though. She doesn't want you smoking at Christmas because it's a family thing and she doesn't want you being in an "altered state of mind." Don't get me wrong, I smoke all the time, but I haven't smoked for the last 2 days just because I've been with the family and what-not. I know what you're saying, but don't be too mad at her man. She's just trying to be a mom, which I imagine is a pretty hard job heh. Well Merry Christmas anyway man. Hopefully it gets better for you. Peace~