ok, Im back online. I said I wasnt mad because she put me on the spot, while her friends were watching...I felt threatened.

As for communication, and asking her what she would do if it were flipped...well, I already had this chat with her once. To be perfectly honest, I think she did this on purpose-she KNOWS how I feel when it comes to this particular point.

rebgirl...we used to be the same way...

I think this is going to be a fall out-especially if she dont come back till the wee-hours again.