Quote Originally Posted by pocketsrstillEmT
The reason I am pissed is that she didnt even talk to me first. I dont know, maybe I am way off here, but if I would have just jumped out of bed, got dressed and THEN tell her where I was going only moments before the ride pulled in the driveway...it would be a whole new ball of wax. I think I have a right, as her fiancee, to at the least know where shes going and whom with. I also think she should have talked to me FIRST, before she even told this person to come over...she didnt even ask how I felt about it.

Am I over reacting, or being a dick?

Thanks-Pockets
Common courtesy would state that she'd keep ya a bit informed BUT you never know.....maybe it's some type of suprise. Marriage is built on trust, IF you don't have that now I'd reconsider the fiancee thing or at least wait until it's there.

As for the "right to know".........she's an adult, your not adopting a child. Good luck to ya!:thumbsup:

Have a good one!