oh yeah, just thought i'd mention.. in the begining my wife wanted me to quit too... always shit like "you aren't gonna smoke weed all your life" or "i'm not gonna put up with forever" if she truely loves you, she isn't gonna drop you for some shit like that.... period... put your damn foot down.... make an agreement, tell her you ain't gonna do it infront of hte kids or her, but you are gonna do it, and you're only gonna quit IF and WHEN you WANT TO....

the way i look at it, you don't need to be married to anyone who won't accept you for who or what you are... i don't even think you should date someone like that... and i have... it's not a road you wanna go down...