LOL!

Well, regardless of gender, we are well met. I am glad I met you on this forum, your advice, and words, are golden in my book. I really appreciate it.

Thank you all for your kind words...and blunt knives(lol)...for it is all very helpful.

Do you think I should bring this up to her, or should I figure out what I want first,, and then find a way to talk to her about it? You are all right; Trust is broken in a few peices, and my worst fear is that I am all business to her...that she is using me, that is...and I dont think anyone should think like that about their special someone-nor should they have to. Am I right?

What warning signs should I be aware of...since I am kind of blind when it comes to her?