Quote Originally Posted by pocketsrstillEmT
Whats up all,

Ok, where to start...well, here we go. I am 27yrs old, and engaged to a 23yr old woman. I met her 4yrs ago and we fell in love instantly, but I was having legal troubles at the time and had to vollanteer to the military. While I was serving in the military we kept intouch until her grandmother died and she had to go to Las Vegas for the funeral. She got lost in the Vegas drug scene and I didnt hear from her again.

Well, five months ago, a couple days after christmas I recieved an unexpected phone call...It was her! She said she was expedited here from vegas six months before on fraud charges, and she was back and wanted to see me. I went to her without question! When we met again, we pretty much picked up where we left off.

She explained that she has a little daughter now who is two years old, but she is not with the dad, also, her baby is in Vegas with her crackhead mom and dad. We began to become very serious again, and I asked her to marry me...she said yes. That about brings us up to speed, now for the advice part.

We have been living together since we got back together, but now I am doubting my love for her. Lately I have been very distant to her, and I feel kind of numb. I am also doubting her love for me, for I dont know if I can trust her now, and I kind of have a bad feeling, like she may only be here because of lack of options-and she might only want a plane ticket to get her daughter. I am kind of scared(I am man enough to admit it...) I dont know what to do and I have no one to turn to. Has anyone ever been in this type of situation, or similar?

Any advice? I know this is heavy shit for this time of night, but I am kind of desperate...any help would be great. Thanks alot.

-Pockets
I'm pretty straight forward darlin and my advice is this
RUN LIKE THE WIND!
KEEP RUNNING!
This woman is a mess and trouble in the making.
Stop thinking with lust and start thinking of what will be 5 years from now.
I can almost bet you, you won't be a happy man.

Stop it now while you still have a chance.

Just what all decent guys need-------crackhead inlaws. Betcha they always ask for money. phone bill...electric...they need food, cigs. All of it going to crack.

Fun sounding life so far?

dude, seriously----run like hell!!