Slow: Bluntness is sometimes more effective than niceties...Everyone else is basically telling me the same thing...just in a very vague way. I think, anyway. I also thing that in being vague, they are trying to get me to realize myself what I already know...this is one situation that is very hard for me though, hurting her would litterally crush me-even if it is for the best.

Birdy: Damn, I have never lined things out like that: drugs, legal troubles, her parents, another mans child...yikes. Kinda feels like a slap in the face; no offense, and thank you.

WeedHound: What do you mean by keep going? I am not quite sure I follow. And btw, thank you for sticking by me in this...I bet you are a great friend to someone, and a great wife. I am correct in thinking you are female, right? I hope-you said "hubby" so I assumed. If I am misled-I deeply apologize!:thumbsup: