One of those ones that is simple but not easy. At one point exactly did you start doubting her? There must have been something that tipped you off and proceeded to start the slide.

Easy: Go to some pre-marital counseling. With a GOOD counselor you will be able to work through the maze. It works....I've been there and it made my entire marraige a completely different relationship than I have ever had. I'm positive the credit for that goes to counseling.

Harder: Sit down and talk to her straight up about it. I'm sensing this is tougher for you for several reasons. You don't tell her about your fears and doubts...you tell us. Because you don't trust her would be my guess; you don't believe what she tells you etc etc.

Ask yourself HONESTLY what you are getting out of this relationship.....your intentions will mark the correct road. Is it for you or her? And which part of of it is for who?

Ps...Have you met and what do you think of this child who will soon become part of your future??