I don't think we can PM, I send "PMs" through positive rep ussually. Anyways, you gotta just "man up" and leave/ignore her. She WILL just bring you down. You sound like you deserve better man. I mean sure it sucks for her and you might feel bad about it, but her drive doesn't concern you. Oh and I gave him rep too but he didn't get bumped up a square which is weird...anyways good luck.