I gotta be honest here. ^^^ What Slow said above? ^^^ That's precisely what I've been wanting to write all day, too, except the comments from others were so full of advice and acceptance for the most part.

Seriously, listen to what he pointed out. She's got a history with major drugs, fraud and legal troubles. Her parents are crack-heads. She's got a kid by someone else. Admittedly it's heartbreaking that an innocent child is a pawn in this sad game that is her life. But I think that woman has shown back up in your life all of a sudden because she needs you for business reasons and little else. Your instincts are trying to guide you out of this situation, I think. Instincts are good things to listen to. Especially when you've got a stable life and a solid future to look forward to otherwise. I fear this is a person who could threaten all that for you. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's what I'm thinking.