Man, that last comment is really getting to me-making me think. Weedhound, you said that loving someone and saving them are not the same thing...this kind of made my heart drop-and I dont know why.

The problem is, I DID feel that way when we met...DEEPLY in love. I had NO doubts that she was the one for me. These feelings sort of...disappeared recently. Maybe it is me that is having the problems and not us. Selfish maybe? I dont know-marital counsiling is sounding promising...

-Pockets