Absolutely no fair to the child to be a sideshow in this. Are you ready to take on a child.....forever? I'm not trying to scare you; that is a big jump and you should absolutely meet the family before you make any decisions. Sure she's cute....but how about when she's sick, tired, whiny etc.... For better or worse. In laws can have a way of invading your life and crack-heads ones....nuff said there I think.

Answer this question as fast and HONESTLY as you can: When she called me I went to her without question because:

she needed me
l love her
i'm lonely

The answer may be all three though probably not. Whats the first one you chose? There is the core of your intentions. Honestly is the key here.

And to be honest myself.....I have a feeling you already know what the answer is here. See what I mean about simple but not easy?