Looks like Chingy or someone, either way, todays rap music sucks, so I'm guessing that rapper sucks too.

Your plant needs more light. It looks to be in a heavily shaded area, and the lower stem is stretching for more light. Get it in more light, and you have at least 8 more weeks before you'll know if it's male or female. It's only the begginning of May as well. The outdoor growing season is just startting.

Good luck though.