The Loner

[Third_Eye]

So i have always been pretty much an independent person. I mean im not a shut in by no means, i hang out with friends all the time. I just wanted to know, is it bad to be a loner. Not want companionship a gf/bf or whatever. I mean ive had gfs before and yes ive had sex quite a few times. But i just dont feel the need for a girl friend, i just like hanging with friends and being by myself. Is their somthing wrong with this?

Third_Eye Reviewed by Third_Eye on 05-04-2007. The Loner So i have always been pretty much an independent person. I mean im not a shut in by no means, i hang out with friends all the time. I just wanted to know, is it bad to be a loner. Not want companionship a gf/bf or whatever. I mean ive had gfs before and yes ive had sex quite a few times. But i just dont feel the need for a girl friend, i just like hanging with friends and being by myself. Is their somthing wrong with this? Rating: 5

[crudemood]

I feel the same way at times

[lagstronaut]

I am in every detail of your post an exact opposite of you.

[napolitana869]

It's beneficial to have meaningful social relationships in your life. If you feel fulfilled with a few close friends thats fine, but don't alienate yourself from the world and the possibility of making new friends.

[thcbongman]

So i have always been pretty much an independent person. I mean im not a shut in by no means, i hang out with friends all the time. I just wanted to know, is it bad to be a loner. Not want companionship a gf/bf or whatever. I mean ive had gfs before and yes ive had sex quite a few times. But i just dont feel the need for a girl friend, i just like hanging with friends and being by myself. Is their somthing wrong with this?

I ask myself the same question everyday. So you aren't alone.

While others are out there with the desire that they must have a g/f, I don't particulary care. Sometimes I feel alone and wish I could have that companionship, but I need a perfect blend of mental and physical stimulation to feel a true sense of attraction. I'm tired of trying, the girls I come across are either to boring, or lack the mindset I desire. The sad thing is physical attractiveness is not at all important to me, so this should be easy to find the one, but it's not

[robert42]

well one thing we all have in common is water...

so im blaming the god dam h20

[PureEvil760]

I am also a loner, I have a couple really good friends but most people i just cant stand usually because they make extreamly false perceptions of me and I end up just fucking them up in the head because they cant understand me no matter how much they want to.

[420MissHighTimes420]

I feel like this year I went through a big loner faze. I think I was just turned off by people for a while and lately I have been talking to some of my old friends and trying to be more social agian. It's wierd in 11ths grade I was out every night with a lot of people then a lot of bad shit happened and I just wanted to be by myself.

[Samwhore]

It's normal, while now, if I found a boyfriend, that'd be great. But now in life, I need to be alone and get my life straight. Then after I can have a chance at happiness.

[TheBigOne45]

I'm a loner myself and really shy. I am not totally anti-social, but I get depressed when I am out with people sometimes. If I go out, I try my best not to go out with more than 2 or 3 people.

Hell for me would be going out to a bar with people. I just can't stand big crowds, let alone ones at a bar. I guess my high vibrations do not resonate with their lower vibrations.

I don't date either. It's ironic because I do know and talk to a lot of good looking women.

I mean I'm cool, but I just prefer to be by myself.

I consider most people to be ignorant. Deep down I feel kind of superior to most people. I feel like I stand out. The closest place I would feel to actually belonging would probably be some kind of temple or church. Maybe this contributes to my shyness.

It's only bad when you are plotting to kill people, but other than that, I see nothing wrong with being alone. Think of it this way...you won't catch their germs.