mentality

[slipknotpsycho]

I think a lot of bullshit could be more under control, but for people's attitudes. It's really easy to get sucked into a pessimistic "there's nothing I can do, so fuck it" mindset, I won't say I've never been guilty of it myself.
And nah, I don't mean people should go stressing themselves out by worrying over every little thing, I know I don't.

But I still stand by what I said, and think the two biggest reasons that this world is so fucked up are: A. Greed. and B. An 'i don't give a fuck' attitude.

oh i agree, and that's why i distinguished between the two... the fuck it attitude should only be applied to matters out of your control... i agree there is alot of 'fuck it' attitude wrongly executed.... say a crack dealer that goes to jail... so he couldn't get a job in a couple of weeks like he planned, what's he do? fuck it i can make money selling crack....

your girl finds someone else that shew ants to be with, what do most people do? stress out over and try to keep it going... that's where the fuck it comes into play... you can't make her love you, and to make her stay with you, just cuz you love her (but she doesn't feel the same) is actually wrong...

tha'ts what i mean by matters out of your control.... you're in control of your life... but sitting there worrying about what others think of you at your job, or your girl that left you for someone else is completely and utterly pointless... you can't change either, and all worrying about either does is stress you out... it doesn't help or change it... just puts more worry and stress in your life, when just general living maxes out the humans ability at dealing with stress/worry....

the fuck-it'ers who never do anything, are much diffrent from the fuck-it'ers (including me) who realize when somethings outta their control and worrying is doing no good to them or the situation at hand...

[afghooey]

Passit: Well, more the actions (or lack of actions) that are reflected by people's attitudes.. but yeah, fair enough if you don't agree. :P Just my :twocents:

Slip: Yeah, I gotcha. And I agree totally. Makes no sense to sweat the small stuff, but some people just take the 'fuck it' mindset a bit too far IMO.

[passitplz]

Passit: Well, more the actions (or lack of actions) that are reflected by people's attitudes.. but yeah, fair enough if you don't agree. :P Just my :twocents:

Slip: Yeah, I gotcha. And I agree totally. Makes no sense to sweat the small stuff, but some people just take the 'fuck it' mindset a bit too far IMO.

dude we were on the same damn page the whole time... exactly what i meant lol:thumbsup: