That happened to me once and I know exactly how you feel..
It's like.. You just found out that your girl friend is "She-Male"..
You feel so betrayed.. keep Saying.. "Motha fucka~"
What I did was.. I had cuttings for cloning and I ended up having 4 more males.
You can make a little bonsai male plant..
To get over, Put him in the oven and bake him.. You'll feel much better..
but I am laughing at you now~ Wa.. hahahaha..