This is kinda a weird question, but I don't care about my buds knowing about either one...I get chicks and I still masturbate all the friggin time, and I've been with a coupl'a not so hot chicks, and alot of the times I get with the really hot freaks....I don't care though...It's just sex and it's just masturbation....I'll get my jollies off when I can...unless I'm in a relationship...I'm a freak in bed...but I am a monogamous man. All my buds know all this cuz I tell them.