Extremely long post, serious advice needed.

[slipknotpsycho]

I think weve all been in that situation where you know the guy is like a poisen but you just cant let go. Im sorry hun.

hey hey hey... it's not always the guy being poison you know... there are poison girls that guys have troubles letting go of too you know..

[rebgirl420]

yeah i assumed that was obvious

[Ivy]

Everyone deserves to still be able to see their friends, hang out with them and such, while in a relationship. IMHO, he sounds like he has some major issues which are getting worse. If he is doing a hard drug, like crack, it can intensify certain behaviors.

I don't know you, but, you deserve something better then this. This has the potential to turn into something worse. The signs are there.

Please be careful.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

He smokes weed.

[Reefer Rogue]

Sorry to hear your going through rough times but it sounds like you guys will pull through.