I was once on a path like your boyfriend, in a relationship, and my gf had the same complaints. I been there, but so I could give you some insight to what he's probably thinking.

If you truly love and care for him, you'd tell him that you can't live with this weight on your shoulders and he has to make his own choices. It takes you being strong, and it'll show how much he respects your words. You should know what wet, E and stuff are doing to him. I'm not saying this things are going to kill him, but even using it a few times, it takes sometime to completely recover whether you realize it or not. It makes you a different person, and the balance of your mind. It makes you overprotective, and paranoid, when you have no reason to be. This is not the kind of relationship you want to be in, you or him. He needs to come to realization of what he's doing to himself and correct his life. To be honest, it'll take more than you telling him to stop for him to get on the right path. He needs to regain his confidence and get his priorties straight.

Fly like a free bird. I see your posts about how much you love your boyfriend, it deja vu to me. I get the sense you aren't truly happy in this relationship, I know you'll deny it, but I believe most of us can see it.
thcbongman Reviewed by thcbongman on . Extremely long post, serious advice needed. Long post ahead: Please don't read if you feel the need to post something retarted. Serious advice needed I just can't do this anymore. I have no one to talk to, about anything but, my boyfriend in specific. I'm going to rant and please, if you have advice..give it to me. I really need it right now. Please keep in mind that everything I say is the damn truth and if you don't believe it, don't respond. My boyfriend and I have had the perfect relationship for the most part, today is our Rating: 5