Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
i doubt highly he's going to give up what he's doing...... i don't believe in trying to change people..... ... no one changes unless they want to...
a change can only come from within, and that's all there is to it.

.... he's also gotta let you be in control of somethings, such as cooking crack...

.... so basicly your two choices are: 1. end the relationship, 2. deal with what he does and just accept it....

personally i'd go with the first...
Very well put. Adding to Slipknot's post... I have a friend whose husband ignored her wishes and got involved with the hard drug trade... he went down hard... she went down with him since he was manufacturing at their house... she was pregnant at the time and just couldn't handle going to court to fight for her own freedom... she pled off to avoid jail time... she will be off probation by the time she's in her mid 30's... she's 26... 3 kids and a husband who is still in jail... one of the saddest women I have ever met.

I don't want that to be your future.