The best thing I can think of to do is just go out camping or something with him for a couple of days and DONT TALK TO ANAYONE ELTS. Just go and have some "bonding time" and both of you should discuss your expectations for the relationship and just chill out and get away from the rest of the world.

As for him telling you what not to whear just tell him what you feel about it. Obviously by him telling you that, he is scared that some one will take you from him so he must like you alot.

I hope you two work it out.


One more thing the crack/coke or whatever HAS TO GO that shit will just fu** up his life and anayone who is intertwined in his life. Even if he is just "cooking it" thats no good people get killed over that stuff.(I have a friend who saw his dad get shot in the head over a coke deal gone bad). And just think would you want some random crack-head going into your boyfriends house and getting all angry over a dependancy?