This sounds pretty familiar. First off to make a relationship work you have to be compatable, if you think you guys are then, you need to ask him striaght up whats the problem then its your call if you think he is worth the the trouble. Dont take this the wrong way but is he a black guy?? Why i asked is because most of us are extremely protective over someone we love. I was doing the samething with my Gf and didnt even know until she pointed it out. But we worked it out and we are good now just figure out if he is worth it and if he has your best interest at heart if he does, then you are going to have to do what it takes. Love has no shame remember that, when you are inlove the only thing that matters is the person you love. However if that person doesnt feel the same you are gonna be in for trouble. Hope that shed some light . Good luck