I'm a 22 year old virgin

[TX Girl]

You say you are going to work in a bank? There will most likely be lotsa girls there. Scope out the tellers the first few days, maybe someone will catch your eye. Try to be in the break room at the same time as her.

Are you funny? Us girls love a guy who is funny. You are bound to get more interaction w the ladies now that you'll be working.

Good Luck! It will happen, just gotta get yourself out there where you interact w girls on a regular basis and that will improve your girl skills and your chances of finding just the right one

[IcedEarth]

i'm a 17 year old virgin.

I don't really have a problem with girls, I can talk to most of them with confidence, and I have had a girlfriend before. I don't think i'm that sexually desirable, but as said before, its all about confidence.

[Dr.Hashman]

My nipples are hairier than Cousin It (see picture), but I just take a razor and shave it. Shave away from the nipple and be careful. In fact, I am hairy all over naturally but you would never be able to tell now. I am only 18 so I don't have the crazy chest hair (genes mostly, dad doesn't have chest hair), but I started growing pubic hair in 2nd grade, so I got a head start on most kids (by 4 years?).

Just buy a beard trimmer ($20 for a kit with different attachments) and trim EVERYTHING... I trim up once a week and it usually takes about 10 minutes total. Just lay down a towel, plug the beard trimmer in, put on the blade-height-guard-attachment-thing (I use the #2 attachment thing for most everywhere, might differ between brands), and make sure you get everything. I trim EVERYTHING, and I suggest all guys should too. My legs, too hairy naturally, trim those. My arms, well I have blond arm hair and it isn't over-abundant so I don't trim that.


I am planning on being a virgin until I fall in love, that could take a while but I don't mind. I think it is a bit like smoking pot, when you have never done it, you are curious but still skeptical, but once you have smoked, you know how great it is and you have a greater want to smoke again, more than before your first time.

Check out this Askmen.com link about body hair and your options.

So that is my 2 cents.

[BLaQLiGhT]

I'm also in the same shoes as you but I choose not to have sex due to my religion. Well, not really my religion but my relationship with god. I'm almost 21 but I'm just as normal as any other guy in this world and have been offered sex a couple of times but these girls mean nothing to me in that sense and I respect them all deeply, the same way I respect everyone I meet and everyone in the world. Maybe I recpest people alittle to much. But I'm not perfect, I get jealous of my friends when they tell me their sex stories. And sometimes, I just want to have sex with every girl I see LOL. But I have control of myself. But I'm still no better then everyone else in this world. The funny thing about it is that the girls that do open up them selves to me with sex have heard my little story about why I'm a virgin. the same stroy I'm tell you'll. For some reason, it make them more attacted to me, lus they say I'm handsom. The attention I get is very odd to me ut I use it in a respectable way. I just ant that girl that I will love forever because I believe love is the most important thing in life and I believe you guys and gals believe the same. Mr.D, things will change for you, but you have to change some of the things you do in your life for them to change. Maybe you are scared of someone else touching your body. Go get a massage or something, that will help you with others touching your body. Ten make more friends, just like one of the others said, a friend of a friend will be the girl that might get you want you want. The truth is, Life is short, the only one that can make a big impact in it is you. The choices you make now leads to a different future. Good Luck on your choice bro :thumbsup: ...

[mrdevious]

I'm also in the same shoes as you but I choose not to have sex due to my religion. Well, not really my religion but my relationship with god. I'm almost 21 but I'm just as normal as any other guy in this world and have been offered sex a couple of times but these girls mean nothing to me in that sense and I respect them all deeply, the same way I respect everyone I meet and everyone in the world. Maybe I recpest people alittle to much. But I'm not perfect, I get jealous of my friends when they tell me their sex stories. And sometimes, I just want to have sex with every girl I see LOL. But I have control of myself. But I'm still no better then everyone else in this world. The funny thing about it is that the girls that do open up them selves to me with sex have heard my little story about why I'm a virgin. the same stroy I'm tell you'll. For some reason, it make them more attacted to me, lus they say I'm handsom. The attention I get is very odd to me ut I use it in a respectable way. I just ant that girl that I will love forever because I believe love is the most important thing in life and I believe you guys and gals believe the same. Mr.D, things will change for you, but you have to change some of the things you do in your life for them to change. Maybe you are scared of someone else touching your body. Go get a massage or something, that will help you with others touching your body. Ten make more friends, just like one of the others said, a friend of a friend will be the girl that might get you want you want. The truth is, Life is short, the only one that can make a big impact in it is you. The choices you make now leads to a different future. Good Luck on your choice bro :thumbsup: ...

Actually, I've gone to a massage therapist a thousand times because of my back and neck pain. I also take massages from my friends whenever I can get them, because frankly I'll take ANYTHING that can make the pain stop, or even reduce it. So in that sense I managed to get used to it.

Still though, your advice is overal pretty good. Thanks man.

My nipples are hairier than Cousin It (see picture), but I just take a razor and shave it. Shave away from the nipple and be careful. In fact, I am hairy all over naturally but you would never be able to tell now. I am only 18 so I don't have the crazy chest hair (genes mostly, dad doesn't have chest hair), but I started growing pubic hair in 2nd grade, so I got a head start on most kids (by 4 years?).

lol, I don't know how you do it man, but I tried and tried to shave them and it left this obvious stubble that I couldn't get rid of no matter how much I went over it.

You say you are going to work in a bank? There will most likely be lotsa girls there. Scope out the tellers the first few days, maybe someone will catch your eye. Try to be in the break room at the same time as her.

Actually I have noticed that the tellers there are all female, and there's some VERY attractive ones about my age. So I'm applying tomorrow anyway, woot!

Are you funny? Us girls love a guy who is funny. You are bound to get more interaction w the ladies now that you'll be working.

Yep, my whole group of friends pretty much thinks I have the wittiest sense of humor. At least I have that going for me. :jointsmile:

Good Luck! It will happen, just gotta get yourself out there where you interact w girls on a regular basis and that will improve your girl skills and your chances of finding just the right one

Thanks

as far as picking up girls, go ahead and throw yourself into uncomfortable situations its not healthy to avoid them. Afterwords you always feel better, even if turned down. your stronger cause u tried.

That's some 100% truth right there pureevil. I've only recently learned to stop avoiding social situations, now it's time to push it to intimate situations too. I'll keep your advice in mind, thank you.

[Bodom Children Of]

You need to acquire that 'fuck it' mentallity. If she turns you down, fuck it, who cares. If she says yes, fuck it. If life throws you a curveball and gives you hairy nipples, fuck it, you could have downsyndrome that'd be worse. I got laid a couple times when I was 16 from this chick who was friends with my buddys sister, and after that I didn't get laid again until I was 18 and that was with some chick I met at the bar. I get laid from time to time now, especially now that a girl who's been a friend of mine forever has begun to fool around with me, but I have never had a girlfriend, I don't think I have asked a girl out since I was 17. I am short 5'6, I am pretty built physically, but not toned. I am your average short built like a rock italian goombah. But I got rejected by the first four girls I ever liked enough to ask out and that has ruined me ever since. Sure sex is nice, but it comes in spurts, no meaningful relationship behind it, no love. It makes you feel hollow when you don't have someone to connect with. What sucks even more is when everyone your best friends with has a girl and when you all go out your the loser trying to pick up chicks. That is why I acquired the 'fuck it' attitude.

very well put. In the grand scheme of things, sex really isn't that important.

[yoda]

yeah you can go with all these tricks and hobbies that attract girls. but personality really is the key. i have bad teeth, yet i have an amazing girlfriend. personality can make up for anything.

[mrdevious]

yeah you can go with all these tricks and hobbies that attract girls. but personality really is the key. i have bad teeth, yet i have an amazing girlfriend. personality can make up for anything.

Well dude bad teeth are understandable when you're like 900 years old! And where were you May 4th, international Star Wars day? ("May the 4th" be with you). Crushing empires I hope!

[Weed4Life]

Where have you been Blaqlight, have a current grow going? I do and I am venturing into clong and keeping a mother plant to pull some clones off of her. I had bought some White Widow and Big Bud seeds from Gypsy and all I recieved was a empty envelope. So my seeds were taken. What a bummer. I have 2 females right now 1 Bubble/1 papaya and 2 unknown mids growing.

[Nochowderforyou]

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin bro, no shame at all. It doesn't make you less of a man, so who cares.