Thank you Samwhore, thats exactly what I'm going to do it only makes sense.
I cant seem to give you more rep. lol.

And BFA? She never came out directly and told me but once on the phone she was asking me which girls I found hot and do I like any guys? I answered then went to ask her the same xact question Does she like guys? She said no... then trailed off. Whatever that meant.. I took it as she doesnt and so .. thats that.