its Kind of complicated. help?

[crudemood]

Um well where do i start.
I made friends with this girl, we got really really close. I really value her as a friend.
I had no idea but one day she tries to get me jealous with a boy, talks to him about marriage and looks at me the whole time while talking to him. She had done this several times on seperate occasions. I found that kind of weird because sometimes she acts all possessive with me. She had once squished herself between me and some guy once she caught us two getting real close while just chatting...
Well one day, she comes over to my house and she looks up some random things on youtube. A video called Touch me, which was some video about artists, something she's totally not interested in a torally random video too. I freaked out because I had no idea she was interested in me in that way, so I called her crazy and laughed nervously.
Ever since that day she's been a total bitch to me although I'd catch her staring at me at random times. She would keep saying how everything doesnt revolve around me, okay so I backed off. She said she didnt want to waste her time on me. Waste time? I thought we were only friends.
Between that day and now, I've approached her once she told me I was an easy target to get angry.. and then she said how she had solved the problem and then went to tell me she was seeing someone and that I should stop bothering her and continued to act cold towards me. I want to be her friend again but I'm pretty sure she said that to hurt me or something.

This whole time she never said outloud she was interested in me but the signs were there! I wonder what happened.. and i'm sure this isnt all in my head and it doesnt take a genious to figure out she was interested me. I want us to be friends again..its like we were great friends but then now she's cold hard bitch to me. its weird. :wtf:

Should I bother trying to talk to her again? what should I do?

crudemood Reviewed by crudemood on 04-30-2007. its Kind of complicated. help? Um well where do i start. I made friends with this girl, we got really really close. I really value her as a friend. I had no idea but one day she tries to get me jealous with a boy, talks to him about marriage and looks at me the whole time while talking to him. She had done this several times on seperate occasions. I found that kind of weird because sometimes she acts all possessive with me. She had once squished herself between me and some guy once she caught us two getting real close Rating: 5

[crudemood]

i'm a girl, im bi and i didnt think she was interested in me in that way.
i want to be her friend again at least. shes such a cool gal..

[Samwhore]

Nevermind.

Well, maybe she's a little afraid. I would just ignore her, even though your great friends this could get so much worse. I mean, Crude, your lovely and I'm pretty sure you could get a way better guy or girl.

[crudemood]

Crude is a girl.

She sounds like she's coming on lesbian? Or is she just being a bitch, I can't really tell from the story.

Well, Im confused too actually, she never said anything directly to me about how she felt but its the way she acts around me. You know , actions speak louder than words.

[Samwhore]

Hm, well, you did call her crazy so maybe you kind of turned her off.

[crudemood]

Hm, well, you did call her crazy so maybe you kind of turned her off.

She caught me off gaurd, what was I supposed to do. Yeah, I totally think that was the turning point of the so called relationship. The night before we did spend 2 hours on the phone talking about nothing, I should have seen it coming!

[Samwhore]

Call her up, and tell her how you feel. It'll be hard, even if she doesn't pick up the phone. But you must tell her someway, even if it's e-mail. You need to have these things off your chest even if they don't work out you need to know at least you tried. She might even compromise and become friends again. If nothing else works, just say, "I'm always ready to be your friend, even if it takes you years, I'll be here waiting with open arms."

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Is she even bi/gay?

[Skink]

basically your trying to read her mind... cards on the tabe time...

[crudemood]

Thank you Samwhore, thats exactly what I'm going to do it only makes sense.
I cant seem to give you more rep. lol.

And BFA? She never came out directly and told me but once on the phone she was asking me which girls I found hot and do I like any guys? I answered then went to ask her the same xact question Does she like guys? She said no... then trailed off. Whatever that meant.. I took it as she doesnt and so .. thats that.