Hey Res.

It's not really my buisinsess. But I would try to fill the kids up with values at this time. Make drinking the eggnog a special event. Go to the skateing rink, build snow people. Throw good values and im sure your kids will appreciate that just as much as anything. It seems the last thing they need is exactly 200 pounds in shit.

I'm not sure, i would even consider buying her a gift, to show her that her financial help is not welcome. Think of something from the heart thats meaning full. M.J had a good idea with the muzzle, try involving that.

I really don't know, thats just what I would do. Mabe not involve the muzzle though. She has been rude to you. It depends on the relationship really suppose.