I hate 'em, too, and that's why my favorites are the Chantelle bras, which are bearable. Luckily I don't require the support when I'm at home just chillin, and the only time I ever wore one at night was when I was nursing (and sore). Braless is my constant state when I'm here at home. My bra and my shoes are the first things that come off when I get home in the afternoons.