Quote Originally Posted by napolitana869
I think it sounds like there are bigger problems that she isnt telling you and she's using the weed as an excuse to complain about something because she can't complain about whats really bothering her. It's possible that she doesnt know whats really bothering her but she knows that something isn't right. It sounds like she could benefit from individual counseling, and that you both could benefit from some type of relationship counseling to learn how to communicate better.
Yes your pretty bang on about that one.

I myself have been to consoling before and know how much one can benifit from it.

With her its hard for her to even accept help from me. I mean I don't wanna list examples but there have been numerous times She has needed my help in many cases but will not ask, Or will ask and when I offer she gets offened.

She has done everything herself her whole life and its made her a stong person but there is nothing wrong with asking for help. I do it all the time.

im considering with all thats going (I mean im not sure what will happen tonight) If we do have any chance in resolving this Consoling should be on our TO DO List..

Loads to think about....

kd