Quote Originally Posted by stinkyattic
it's a breakdown in your communication patterns... when she becomes angry and you shut down... if you are going to save the relationship you have to start by changing your usual method of solving problems together. Because the weed is like, NOT the biggest problem you're going to encounter in your relationship... I know you hope to buy a house some day... be ready for some SERIOUS problem solving... and if your current method of just caving to avoid confrontation keeps up, you're going to REALLY resent her in a few years. PROMISE.
Hey Stinky....

yes this has bogged my mind many times,, I know there are some really hard things ahead ina life with somone. I have thought various times about houses Condos, Kids Familys, Money alone is a annoying a touchy subject.

Last time I stood up and was like fuk this Its not going down like this. She ran away. I pointed out some obious things that were wrong, I got slapped, A beer thrown at me and I was punched in the face. I kinda laughed it off hurting laugh though. But I was ready to lose it. My closet door paid the price. She left threating to leave saying shes not comming back (I said dont ever threaten to leave me thats childish. Espically for somone who tells you they want to marry you.) and later she came back we made up but didn't actully resolve anything. Because todays problem is still here..

Man this has got me really bummed out, I care so so much about things its a curse rather than a blessing. I love this gurl more than anything. We are best friends and to me thats the most important thing. Loveing is the easy part. Being best friends can take years to happen with some couples and it never happens at all with others.

Ahhh whata mind fuk,, Im meeting with my Pops tonight Kinda perfect timming. He hopfully will have something good to say..

Thanks for the inputs guys and Gals...
More is always welcome at this time....

kd