Trouble In The Hen House

[foxysox]

Word KD you the man.
Handle your business.
You've got my support fo sho.

[Hardcore Newbie]

Haha I'd grow for you if I had the room to do it :P

[Weedhound]

Like Stinky said it seems to me that your friend has some growing up to do. Feel like raising her?

I'm seeing tons of control freak signs.....yes, no, maybe today. Plus the fact she gets physical when angry. No anger management issues there. Got you jumping through some pretty good hoops doesn't she? Keeps you on your toes....and her in the drivers seat.

Stop buying into her accusations that it's your fault she's not happy. It helps to feed her delusion that she doesn't have to do any of the work here. Stop and ask yourself if you think you have done your best.....not how can you fix everything because you can't.

The real question is this. How happy are you in the relationship? Are your needs being met here? What are YOU getting out of this relationship? Amazingly....50% of this relationship is about you.

[stinkyattic]

Are your needs being met here? What are YOU getting out of this relationship? Amazingly....50% of this relationship is about you.

Yup it SHOULD be anyway.... but I think it has not been.

[Weedhound]

But now thinking about it I shoudl have just been totally honest and said ITs for Both of us. ME and YOu

kd

One point for her side. If you cannot be honest with her (and I assume that is due to fear of her reaction) that says something right there about how "deep" your relationship is. Ready to settle for that?