I'm not really one to post personal stuff on a web site and ask for help, But considering the situation and the subject this site seems liek a convienent place to do so.

My Gf of a year and a half Living together for a year. Has come to me in frantic times, and said she doesn't wanna smoke anymore. We both smoke everyday frequently. She sayds she doesn't wanna laze around and she honestly feels its ruining her life. I say fine thats cool, I will do what I can to help you with the situation. Do you want me to stop smoking as well? No Just don't do it around me. Fari enough I wanna help and be supportive and I needa break anyways so I will stop smoking for a bit as well. Cool Cool

So a week goes by and I'm feeling pretty good about not smoking. Then she comes home witha Bag. (I also thought I'd mention I havea grow Box as well) Shes like I wanna smoke again cuz im just bored etc etc. Then we smoke and it goes back to normal again. Smoking every day or so,, Then a month goes by and we have the same frantic argument..,.

I waanna stop smoking But YOu have you boix and have weed around all the time etc etc. So in a Fit I said what would you like me to do, Ill get rid of the plants box whatever I don't feel I should stop smoking but I will not smoke around you etc etc. It calms down again. and a day goes by or two and shes smoking again. So I continue back and start smoking with her again.

Another month goes by and the same thing again But now shes says shes gotta leave and that she told me we have a problem, Weed is always around her and IF I loved her I would have stopped her from smokiong and gotten rid of the Box a long time ago and shes had it now Im a bad influence on her and I Have a problem etc etc,

What do I do? Do I call it quits and end this relationship or do I get rid of my Grow Box stop smoking and hope somthign changes when I truly believe to myself that the weed isn't the problem I believe the problem is in somthing else and weed is being used as the outlet to deal with the problem,

AM I carzy in thinking this? Any of you Women,,, I say Women cuz I know there are slot of HIgh schoolers out on this site. I respect your opionions I just know most of you you haven't dealt with these kind of serious emotions in relationships yet. Living together etc.

You see I love weed, I love growing it I have found gardening to become more of a hobby than anything now. I don't mind giving somthign up for the one I love but I think Theres more of another problem going on here, and unfortunatly its not somthing I can fix. And then I have to make my Lady happy but at what cost do I sacrifice what makes me happy? Espically when I feel its not the problem

We have never been good at talking about stuff,, She gets too angry flips out and I just trun right off in defense (Im patient and dont like to yell it doesn't help the situation) before anythign really gets talked about.. She gets mad. I withdraw cuz I don't know what to do cuz its so overwhelming. Then I bet she feels undervalued or somthign Shes always saying im not listening, The cycle continues...

This is gonna be a hard next couple of weeks for the KD man....

Any insight on this could be helpful for my decisions in the up comming week.

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kdspecial Reviewed by kdspecial on . Trouble In The Hen House I'm not really one to post personal stuff on a web site and ask for help, But considering the situation and the subject this site seems liek a convienent place to do so. My Gf of a year and a half Living together for a year. Has come to me in frantic times, and said she doesn't wanna smoke anymore. We both smoke everyday frequently. She sayds she doesn't wanna laze around and she honestly feels its ruining her life. I say fine thats cool, I will do what I can to help you with the situation. Rating: 5