Quote Originally Posted by Triple-P
^^ everything someone does in their life is based on being someone theyre not to get what they want
nononono that is not a sustainable way to live!!!
If you are all fake in an interview to get hired, chances are you are not a good fit for that job and either you or your employer is going to be unhappy.
If you are fake in a relationship, you are going to be sitting there 20 years from now at a bar complaining to your drinking buddies about how the bitch got the house.
It sounds, then, that you are suggesting to PRETEND to be a gentleman, and PRETEND to listen to your girl.

My advice to Tom is to BE YOURSELF... if a girl likes you for who she THINKS you are, not for who you really are, the relationship is doomed to failure.

And anyway, f'real, have some pride! The attitude of 'take me as I am or don't take me at all' is better than if you really suck, and have to pretend to be worthy of female attention...

So I guess you have to ask yourself, 'do I suck?' hahahaha