I would take a college course or two and check out the student's cafeteria. At my little community college, there was a stoner/goth/free-thinker table. I was in my early 50s and just plunked myself down at the table and started talking. Being old enough to be everyone's grandma didn't stop me! After about a week of discussing philosophy and my past as a hippie, I was invited to a party (they didn't expect me to come). I went to the party. After I showed them how to clear a 4 foot bong, i was totally accepted and had plenty of connections. If I can do it, you can do it!- Granny:hippy: