How do I deal with this!?

[passitplz]

ghostoker gets rep points for bein a G! lol

[BabyFacedAbortion]

My mom acted basically the same way for many years when I was a younger teen (12-15) and she still has outbursts of the behaviour now (I'm 17). I never delt with it the way I probably should have. I think you should probably keep acting the same way, because freaking out on her will do nothing. Maybe move out, if you can.

Sadly, I've been classified as clinically depressed and bipolar and to be honest, without meds it's no fun and even with meds it's no fun all the time. It takes so long to balance out your mood and your emotions (and meds) that it wears you out. It's frustrating and upsetting most of the time and to be honest, I've snapped on quite a few people very close to me and may have even lost a boyfriend because of my 'craziness' (good riddence tho). Just be paitent with her and try to understand how she feels I'm sorry bud, I know I've made my family's life a living hell I can't imagine what a grown women who you're supposed to trust and rely on has done to your's.

[Skink]

Have you smoked her out???

[GHoSToKeR]

Skink, nope. I've tried and tried, and we eventually made a deal that if and when I harvest my first grow, she'll smoke a joint with me... The problem is since then she's gone back to her old religious beliefs, and now she won't admit she ever said that.. LOL

ToDrunkToFish, perhaps. Yeah, I'd say that's a factor, made worse by all the other shit she as to deal with. I wish there was something I could do to help her though, but nothing seems to help.

BFA, thanks. Yea I would so move out if I can, the problem is I'm a broke student, and it's gonna be another while before I leave to go to university, so I'm fucked for now. Maybe when I'm at uni it won't be so bad, 'cause I'll only be here occasionally, like holidays and stuff.

I'm sorry to hear you're going through that, BFA.. Don't call yourself crazy, cause you're not.. Everyone has problems, some people's are just more pronounced than others. I went through a short time of mild depression myself, and I know how it feels. Older members of Cann.com might remember when fopr a while I was a dick to everyone and anyone and just snapped at people for no reason, in the end I stopped posting here because I was being an asshole. My real life was like that too and I withdrew from most of my friends for the same reasons. I tried some kind of meds for a while, but in the end I managed to pull myself out of it without any outside help. I hope you can do the same. We don't know eachother too well, but if you ever need someone to talk to about any thing, let me know.

Oh, I tried to rep you guys for being nice, but I've given out too much rep already

[slipknotpsycho]

dr. slip prescribes one joint to be smoked before giving her, her prescribed joint.

[PaRaNoIa]

My mom has been like that since .. erhm .. Since I was around 8.. I'm 18 now, and it's a real pain in the ... !

Try talking to her about it.. It helps for me.. For one or two days, then it's the same rutine again.. It sucks..


My mom's bloodpressure is to high, and has lead to her getting retired at the age of 42. That then lead to depression and all those things.. Not easy NOT treading on her toes..

[GHoSToKeR]

Yeah, walking on egg shells around people sucks, especially when you live with them. My mum has also been forced to retire from work early, she's 55 and hasn't worked for a couple of years, and won't be going back to work. Just another thing that fuels the fire, you know? I hope things improve for you, PaRaNoIa. And slip, thanks man.. As your attorney I advise you to smoke a bowl.

[slipknotpsycho]

Yeah, walking on egg shells around people sucks, especially when you live with them. My mum has also been forced to retire from work early, she's 55 and hasn't worked for a couple of years, and won't be going back to work. Just another thing that fuels the fire, you know? I hope things improve for you, PaRaNoIa. And slip, thanks man.. As your attorney I advise you to smoke a bowl.

well she doesn't have to WANT her medication to GET her medication... does she like brownies or cupcakes?

[GHoSToKeR]

Yup. Unfortunately I'm the worst cook in the world. It's an idea, though

[grasshopper420]

ghost its indicative she tries herb weed is probably the only thing that has kept me sane with bi polar and depression the last 13 years you must get her to try it