this is one of the few times ill be serious on thse forums or anywhere else for that matter so pay attention please well bud i was just going to beep at you till i sa bi polarity mentioned well in addition to having 5 bi olar sisters and two bipolar brothrs and being bi polar myself i completly understand an sympathize/empathize your situation and to tell you the trut the only thing you can do when your mom gets like that(its called raging btw) is jst stay calm and let it pass remember that its just the way she is and nothing can change it it will pass and se doesnt mean anything shell say during a fit of bi polarity the best thing for these people is a med change or perscription i used to be on depakote ER and it orked but made me tired and shit so now i use weed medicinally and it works great ihope i helped with this a bit...... i love you