I've been dealing with my grandparents ivorce for the last 5 years. Not an ordinary divorce, the most twisted fucked up divorce in the world resulting in my grandmother living with my family adn that bastard who should be skinned alive and dead is married his gold digging whore of a wife with her bastard children from her last 2 marriages. Ive had to deal with my grandmother slowly going mad and depressed and it has drained me. It has made me question my religion and existance.

Shit like this will eventually happen to everyone where we see loved ones in situations we just cant help.

You said that the older you get the calmer you become. that is a good sign cause I fyou were still getting pissed off by the things she does, then you could accidentally say some things you regret. Just keep calm around her I guess.

sorrry about the speech but I hope it helps.