another mod has done this....

i agree that it wasnt very tactful, but you have to keep this in mind....(i know i am gonna get it for this, but it is my opinion)....remember, people judge us by things we say on here and the way we present ourself...the best way to avoid this is to not say and do things that leave it open for people to think these things about us....i am not saying you deserved the comment rebgirl, but if you come across a certain way, you leave yourself open for these things....again, this is not against you rebgirl, in any way..just a general comment...kindof like you want to act like an asshole, people are going to treat you like that...make sense?

one more time, that comment was not meant in a degrading way to you in any way from me reb...and i think you know that...it is just a generalization for ALL members, not any ONE inparticular.....