i agree with macwq reefer will never be more socially acceptable than alcohol i have to keep it a secret and i do. i have 2 or 3 friends i smoke with and that's all. most of friends have no idea. i have even heard them said mean stuff about potheads they know, all the while they're sucking down booze. makes me kind of pissed. i don't drink hardly any but i sneak around to burn one. ain't is a shame.