Fiending friend

[NextLineIsMine]

I have no qualms with people toking everyday, I do for most of the year.

My friend has of recent gone overboard, hes come to believe he is some all knowing guru and tries to impart his non-sensical wisdom on me frequently now. ALL that he does on weekends is drive places, smoke at them, ramble, then find another place to repeat the process. A buddy and I tried to get him to at least do something other than smoke weed so we go rock climbing and he claims he has no cash then blows seventy dollars on edibles at the club the next day.

How do I talk to him about this without seeming like a hypocrite considering I toke daily?

NextLineIsMine Reviewed by NextLineIsMine on 04-15-2007. Fiending friend I have no qualms with people toking everyday, I do for most of the year. My friend has of recent gone overboard, hes come to believe he is some all knowing guru and tries to impart his non-sensical wisdom on me frequently now. ALL that he does on weekends is drive places, smoke at them, ramble, then find another place to repeat the process. A buddy and I tried to get him to at least do something other than smoke weed so we go rock climbing and he claims he has no cash then blows seventy Rating: 5

[BakedDaily0420]

I would just let him toke all day everyday like me:thumbsup:

[ToDrunkToFish]

I had a couple friends like that. I dont talk to em much anymore. Either they realize its too much and calm down or they just wont change and think everyones out to get them and just get all pissy.

Tell him its not his fuckin life. You toke daily because you got the resources. And theres nothin wrong with that I do it too. He goes outa his way to get em it seems. Or just keep askin to hang out and shit and if he's always askin for weed, or to smoke talk about it then or somthin. Or keep doin shit that would cut-into his 'weed' time and if it becomes a problem be like Dude, cut this shit out and show him examples.

I kinda used to be like that when I dealt small. But after I got on probation and quit cold turkey. I realized weed will be there tommorow. The next day, and the day after that. So stfu and be sober and deal with it. If you cant then you got a problem.

[weedmaster]

i smoke 24/7 but don't think it's a good thing to just smoke and couch,i'm very active and cant just sit about, you should never let weed take over your life, it should be a nice enhancement not your whole life.

[BakedDaily0420]

Very true weedmaster!

[MinusRyan]

Smack him across the face while hes blazed. Then tell him your the gingerbread man and take a shit on his lap. then run out the door screaming "BLOODY FUCKING MURDER".

[LIP]

It sounds like the weed's controlling him - and that's not good.
The only time drugs become a problem is when they control you, not the other way round.

Talk to him as a mate and try and get him to cut down - maybe a joint with every meal -

[Nochowderforyou]

I'd just talk to him, but don't get mad or controlling. All you can do is suggest. You can't tell him what to do.

On a side note though, I too smoke weed, if no one knew, I know, big surprise, and I live a very active lifestyle.

[JOINTMASTER5]

those r the kids tha become geniouses, let him toke, and stop judging others

[Ganj]

i don't think you can become a genius. that capacity to learn is usually inherited. i find your concern isn't with your friends "problem," but rather his attitude as you complain that his self-importance is excessive. if his words really annoy you, then challenge him. when he attempts to instill his mighty commandments on you, simply express your distaste for his disparaging comments. tell him something directly, don't play games. a point should be at the end of the line, despite how cruelly and monotonously you disparage him. if you can help then you should do so sincerely, and not cripple him anymore than he's done to himself.