i feel u on the over reactive parent shit.the way i see it,if any of my kids start smokin weed ima do like my mom,the only time she ever tripped is if i would try flauntin my business,the weed necklace charms and shirts and shit,thats dumb shit.she new i was a teen,she was a teen once,if kids r gonna smoke and drink they r gonna do it whether u like it or not.everyone has their rebelious stage in life,u might as well be kool with ur kids and just tell them as long as they r at the house smokin it and out of trouble,pass that shit this way u know.