id say strip tease, after dinner go home have him relax in the living room, go get some drinks come back naked and with whip cream on certain spots and give him a strip tease, dont let him touch you and when he does slap him.. fondle him then leave the room and tell him you will be right back giving him a wink, let him come find you.. then it is on.. hope you have fun tonight. i know my response is probably to late