Quote Originally Posted by Bree1978
Well now I read it....I think it was sad that she stole out of your supply instead of talking with you about it. Maybe you could work with your daughter twords a better relationship, allowing for more communication? To be honest, I told my parents after smoking a few times and liking it. My parents were pretty darn strict, but I could talk to them. That's really important. Simply put, I trusted them so I discussed it with them. Because they trusted me they told me that if I kept things in ck and didn't make it an issue in my life they wouldn't bother me about it. And I kept my promise, and they kept thiers. Now I smoke with my father occasionally (mom doesn't toke but once every five years) and this happend 15 years ago.

So, I don't know if you grounded your daughter or not...if you haven't, I don't think you should. This can be your first step in showing her that you trust her and i'ts okay to make mistakes as long as she doesn't repeat them. She'll know if she is curious or scared about something she can come talk to you without you getting upset with her. If you have already grounded her, I would tell her it wasn't because she smoked, but because she stole and that is wrong..no matter what the stolen property is. That's my opinion....nothing more nothing less. Please keep us updated if you can.

:jointsmile: Bree
thanx for you post,thats bwhat i done i did'nt ground her we had a chat we have a good vibe between us she normally tells me everything,cos she has no mum we are very close,she said sorry for stealing it and i belived her,she shed she didnt like(not like her dad),iexplained to her the dangers of smoking so young and give her all the info i even let her read a couple of threads so i will wait and see.thankyou for your input:thumbsup: