Quote Originally Posted by dziendobry4
getting married at 18 is asking for disaster
Sure got that right.

Listen, I got married at 20, and lemme tell you. If you aren't truly committed to this, you'll end up with a big mess on your hands.......you become one...not only in soul, but assets and liabilities. I married solely out of love without thinking of the consequences, and it was rough. This is a woman I still hold fondly to my heart. Our entire relationship was ruined because we moved through it so fast. You don't want to do that. Slow and steady wins the race.

You both are seriously too young. You need to spread the seed before you settle down. You gotta have fun young, you can't be tied down. I lost a year of my prime to marriage. Bleh.