Sexual Needs: Women and Sex

[DryGuy420]

if I'd need to have sex at least just once (and with the right woman I might add) because physiologically I'd need it for balance, it's been so long, so I don't go around starting trouble.. that would suck

I SOOOOOOO dont understand what ya are tryin to say here man? I think your brian was working faster than your fingers hehe it happens to us all from time to time :stoned:

[DryGuy420]

most of the people here (besides dryguy)are all happily married and most of the stuff they plan on doing witht there lives are already done they all prolly have a good life goood partners and everything they need but if u dont have thoses things then u dont no how it feels to be fulfilled in that aspect.

Where in ANY of my posts did i say i wasnt happily married? My wife is great my life is good that has NOTHING to do with any of this. Fulfillment of needs arent really the issue here as most people in this world are fulfilled of the NEEDS to sustain life and live. I speak of wants and desires,specifically all of our (as human beings)primal desires. To say your needs are taken care of great!!!! We need more people like you who are content with just having your NEEDS fulfilled to help the rest of us with our desires and not have to worry about giving help back. Kinda like the guy who is 40 and is flipping burgers becouse he was too much of a dumbshit to get an education,and now beleives it is too late. You dont NEED the education to survive but it helps to fulfill your wants and desires. Keep flippin thoes burgers S.W.E.D.420.

Also why does someone have to be married to be fulfilled in life? I dont remember even mentioning marriage except to state the fact that i am. Are you trying to say that to be fulfilled in life you must be married? Dont open that can of worms becouse you will choke.

[DryGuy420]

Oh ok sorry man thought you were fighting with me LOL man i needs to slow down on the green tonite LOL sorry for spittin some ulginess at ya friend,force of habit there . In fact im goin up to............well i was gonna say change it but then the last 2 posts wouldnt make sence its cool i was wrong and im not too big to admit it . Read it fast,stoned,and diggin on this debate/conversation Not a good combo i think ill be done till moning LOL Again friend im sorry didnt mean to go on attack mode


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[Polymirize]

He's got the bigger picture in mind as well as still being a sexually interested man. It just no longer governs his every urge.

It's like you know me so well... Dave's a lucky guy, and you two seem pretty happy together so I'll try not to get my hopes up. But at this point, you're both more than welcome to come visit my dung hut someday... As soon as I build it, that is.



And Dry, you're describing the sex drive as if it was on the same level as hunger. So let me put it this way, I'd rather go hungry than eat junk food.

Honestly though, what would I do with four girls at the same time? All that action but absolutely no intimacy.

It's our conceptualization of man that opens the possibilities for our gender... Regardless of what drives you do feel, what drives do you feel would be most worthy?

[Non]

well if you go all your life without having sex or even had a relationship with a woman because you've never found the 'right woman' or whatever, there's a certain age where it would start become unhealthy not just for you but for others as well.

[birdgirl73]

Dry, I'm hoping you were a bit heavy into the green when you responded to me, too, because you certainly interpreted what I said about grownup men who are past their peak hormonal urges making more desirable lovers/partners/parents in a very extreme manner. That wasn't what I said or meant at all.

You'll have to trust me that I've not only discussed this very subject with my husband, father, and grandfather but that I also have proof in books and labs all over the country that men's testosterone levels decrease as they age. That doesn't mean guys don't continue to have sexual thoughts 9 times more often than we do. Y'all still do that. You're guys. But that slight dip in the hormonal drive to literally jump anyone with a vagina does occur. It's when that happens and guys aren't as on prowl anymore that I believe they truly come into their own as men instead of boys. They can concentrate on all sorts of things in addition to their own sexual urges. Like being a lover who's concerned about his partner's pleasure in addition to his own. About emotional intimacy. About children, if they're in the picture. This doesn't happen when men are old and wrinkly and saggy. That's an insult to grownup men, frankly. It generally begins to happen in the early 30s, sometimes before, and the testosterone levels decline slowly and steadily over time. This doesn't in any way render guys incapable sexually or from an erectile standpoint. It doesn't make them saggy or old. It just means their androgen (male hormone) levels change, which affects their brains and urges.

If you want some tips about how to stave off that dip as long as possible and remain a virile, Viagra-free horn-dog well into your 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond, we'll see if we can't get Dave Byrd, our resident circulatory expert, back on here to address this topic. He's living proof that that can be done, and he's just turned 50 and has never been sexier.

[alphonso]

Other things begin to become more important as life goes on, but loving sex as I do I figure if I'm getting it on everyday, or every other day, why would I need to say it would be the last thing I would want to do before dying if I already had in the last 48 hours? :thumbsup: