I Need Girl Help!

[lardman]

Thanks guys. Well, now I have a few options to choose from...lol. Ill probablly just play it cool and if our relationship gets better than Ill do SOMETHING. Or I could be direct and tell her how I feel. Most likely the first. Which is what I don't want. Hmm....

Thanks for the help....any other help?

Peace

[MaryjaneAndHashley]

She could just be the laughy-flirty type, and believe me, those girls exist. I'd say play it cool and just watch from the sidelines for a bit. If things seem to progress then maybe you should consider making a move. But judging from where you are right now, I'd say play it cool and just observe quietly...

That's what I was gonna say, those girls that make it look like they love every guy.

Just wait a bit, plus she has a boyfriend.

[xblackdogx]

That's what I was gonna say, those girls that make it look like they love every guy.

Just wait a bit, plus she has a boyfriend.

i love you

[Diary of a Madman]

Dude.....nothing pathetic sounding at all. This makes you sound like a pretty normal human being.

you said the following
1) You like her
2) She KNOWS you like her
3) She has a boyfriend at her church.

At your age, boyfriend at church probably doesnt mean shit. Obviously, they arent allowed to bump and grind at church in front of their parents, and he is probably a douche bag, where as you are on a cannabis web site asking for advice on how to hook up with a girl, making you approximately 560% cooler than that asshole. Does he have a car/ bench press 350 lbs? Do you live in a small town or a big city? Where I live, people go to church all over the place, but might go to different schools from each other. FUCK THAT GUY.

Now you must know this. If she acknowledged you like her, she doesnt forget that. So when she flirts with your friend in front of you, she is trying to make you jealous because she likes you, or trying to give you the hint that you shouldnt get your hopes up. I dont know which, just thought Id throw that out there to confuse you more........

NOW......here is my actual advice.......at your age, you need to worry about your future, what you are going to do with your life, after highschool etc... so this girl being your friend is of absolutely no use to you. Yes, sorry to sound like an asshole everyone. She does you no good being your friend. Either you will find a path to follow (career, another girl who doesnt horse-shit you around) or she will (hooters, Stan Gable from the Alpha Beta fraternity at Lambda Lambda Lambda). Therefore, the only logical solution is to be the one hooking up with her. If she says yes, then she may be in your life beyond highschool. If she says no, then nothing changes really. You may think "oh no! now I have pushed us apart!" but thats not true. She already knows you like her anyways. She is probably dick teasing you with the whole friend thing. Its a matter of time before one of you does something with your lives, might as well be you asking HER whats up, or moving on with your life (16 yeer old teenagers, Tulsa welding academy). Why sit and watch what she does? You guys are 16, shit is changing fast.

Once you are 21 + you will think: "I wish I did better on my SAT when i was 16 instead of getting Mary Jane Rotten Crotch pregnant" anyways. Ask me how I know.

Am I totaly wrong here guys? Am I being a pessimistic dick by saying there is no santa claus????

That was the only way I used to feel alive....ask a girl out who will ream the fuck out of you.............it doesnt change anything........you are just that much stronger afterwards

[lardman]

Thanks a lot madman. That was a good post and it really helped me. If I don't do anything, nothing is going to change, and were just gonna be friends and then school is gonna end and Im not gonna see her anymore. So why not take a chance?

Thanks
Peace

[CheebaMan]

i think you should really let her know how youre feeling. Let her know that even though she already has a boyfriend shes a great girl and is very special to you:thumbsup:

[iAlwaYsfEelLikE]

tell her how you feel.....watch how quick she will shit on you....use you up like a roll of t.p.....

[Reefer Rogue]

Save yourself the embarresment and forget about her as more then a friend.

[Diary of a Madman]

:thumbsup:

no prob

Save yourself the embarresment and forget about her as more then a friend.

Yeah, that would be so embarassing to maybe get pussy! What is she gonna do, stop playing barbies with him? Unless she's your ride, who cares.

and DAMNIT, I erroniously named Alpha Beta as a member of Lambda Lambda Lambda, when everyone knows that they are BOTH fraternities at Adams College. CURSE YOU STAN GABLE!!!!!

[napolitana869]

Unless she's your ride, who cares.

I thought that part was really funny.

She knows you like her. You know she has a boyfriend. What do you think is the right thing to do?