Dude.....nothing pathetic sounding at all. This makes you sound like a pretty normal human being.

you said the following
1) You like her
2) She KNOWS you like her
3) She has a boyfriend at her church.

At your age, boyfriend at church probably doesnt mean shit. Obviously, they arent allowed to bump and grind at church in front of their parents, and he is probably a douche bag, where as you are on a cannabis web site asking for advice on how to hook up with a girl, making you approximately 560% cooler than that asshole. Does he have a car/ bench press 350 lbs? Do you live in a small town or a big city? Where I live, people go to church all over the place, but might go to different schools from each other. FUCK THAT GUY.

Now you must know this. If she acknowledged you like her, she doesnt forget that. So when she flirts with your friend in front of you, she is trying to make you jealous because she likes you, or trying to give you the hint that you shouldnt get your hopes up. I dont know which, just thought Id throw that out there to confuse you more........

NOW......here is my actual advice.......at your age, you need to worry about your future, what you are going to do with your life, after highschool etc... so this girl being your friend is of absolutely no use to you. Yes, sorry to sound like an asshole everyone. She does you no good being your friend. Either you will find a path to follow (career, another girl who doesnt horse-shit you around) or she will (hooters, Stan Gable from the Alpha Beta fraternity at Lambda Lambda Lambda). Therefore, the only logical solution is to be the one hooking up with her. If she says yes, then she may be in your life beyond highschool. If she says no, then nothing changes really. You may think "oh no! now I have pushed us apart!" but thats not true. She already knows you like her anyways. She is probably dick teasing you with the whole friend thing. Its a matter of time before one of you does something with your lives, might as well be you asking HER whats up, or moving on with your life (16 yeer old teenagers, Tulsa welding academy). Why sit and watch what she does? You guys are 16, shit is changing fast.

Once you are 21 + you will think: "I wish I did better on my SAT when i was 16 instead of getting Mary Jane Rotten Crotch pregnant" anyways. Ask me how I know.

Am I totaly wrong here guys? Am I being a pessimistic dick by saying there is no santa claus????

That was the only way I used to feel alive....ask a girl out who will ream the fuck out of you.............it doesnt change anything........you are just that much stronger afterwards
Diary of a Madman Reviewed by Diary of a Madman on . I Need Girl Help! Hey everyone, I don't know if this is where this should be, but I think having it here will get the most responses. I like my friend as more than a friend. I really really like her. Every time I think of her I get that feeling in my stomach, like I can't live with out her. Its a really amazing feeling, and its horrible at the same time. I hug her rarely and when I do Im nervous and when I want to hug her, and I don't, I feel fucking shitty as hell. Well, she knows I like her, but Rating: 5