I Need Girl Help!

[lardman]

Hey everyone,

I don't know if this is where this should be, but I think having it here will get the most responses.

I like my friend as more than a friend. I really really like her. Every time I think of her I get that feeling in my stomach, like I can't live with out her. Its a really amazing feeling, and its horrible at the same time. I hug her rarely and when I do Im nervous and when I want to hug her, and I don't, I feel fucking shitty as hell.

Well, she knows I like her, but doesn't know how much I like her. We write notes in class and talk all the time, and she asked who I liked and I said I can't say and she guessed that it was her...which is weird, because I wouldn't ask someone if they liked me if I didn't like them back.

She has a boyfriend that is from her church, he doesn't go to my school. Things have been kinda odd. I don't know if she likes me the same way or not. Sometimes I think she does, like on monday she was sitting right next to me at lunch and kept leaning on me everytime she laughed. And now today she was really close to my friend and she hugged him and kept being right next to him. I know she doesn't like him like that...I don't know if she was doing that on purpose or not.

I don't know what to do. Because I really like her and I don't want things to get fucked up...I ALWAYS SAY THAT! about a girl.....God damnit. Should I just not do anything, because i really want to. Should I just get some balls and do.....what...i dont know...

Usually I would just deal with it myself, and that usually ends up with me not doing anything, so I want some outsiders' perspective and opinion on it.

PLEASE HELP!

Thanks for listening to my pathetic story.

Peace

lardman Reviewed by lardman on 04-05-2007. I Need Girl Help! Hey everyone, I don't know if this is where this should be, but I think having it here will get the most responses. I like my friend as more than a friend. I really really like her. Every time I think of her I get that feeling in my stomach, like I can't live with out her. Its a really amazing feeling, and its horrible at the same time. I hug her rarely and when I do Im nervous and when I want to hug her, and I don't, I feel fucking shitty as hell. Well, she knows I like her, but Rating: 5

[Andrew Nguyen]

She has a boyfriend...

[OniEhtRedrum781]

She could just be the laughy-flirty type, and believe me, those girls exist. I'd say play it cool and just watch from the sidelines for a bit. If things seem to progress then maybe you should consider making a move. But judging from where you are right now, I'd say play it cool and just observe quietly...

[budsmoker only]

like drew says, she does have a boyfriend so if your gonna do anything you might wanna wait til she doesnt have a boyfriend...
now pretend she doesnt, just talk to her and tell her how you feel... tell her that you really like her and that you think bout her a lot and that you would like to take things further but you dont wanna change your friendship or somethin... idk...

[thecreator]

Hell no man fight for her. I was in the same spot a little while ago and I found it best to be direct. Trust me you can work through anything till you fully know what you need to work through. Hmmm alls fair in love and war.......seems like her "BF" doesn't know that lol. Exploit his error and ride of into the sunset with your lady.

[420marijuana420]

Beat the boyfriend's ass, then she'll respect you. Girls love that. Also, you should kick small animals infront of her to look cool.

[thecreator]

Beat the boyfriend's ass, then she'll respect you. Girls love that. Also, you should kick small animals infront of her to look cool.

Key word being "Girl"! If she's about that shit then.......walk away.

[Breukelen advocaat]

Ask her to go to the movies, dinner or (best) both. If she accepts, get some cheap flowers to bring on your way to her place.

[ericwt]

Next time you are with her, lean over and slip your tongue in her ear... no don't do that!

I have no wise advice because girls as a rule are still a mystery for me.

Good luck to you.:thumbsup:

[420marijuana420]

Key word being "Girl"! If she's about that shit then.......walk away.

lol, I was just kidding about that. I'm pretty sure it wouldn't work.