To expand on the "get a safe and don't say a word about it idea":

I would get a safe too lol. Keep all sorts of things in there (all valuables esp.) including mundane things like soda or something. Everytime you want a soda and she's around, open the safe (making sure she can't see the combo or lock) grab a soda, open it loudly, and shut the safe and lock it. If she asks why you have a safe, play dumb, act like some "other" jerk is doing it to guilt trip her.


Ok, maybe that was a bit out there but I'm a bit stone

Oh yeah, and I guess you can't do that cause you went to the RA already. Well GL!