Quote Originally Posted by Bladerunner
I agree, if it's a formal situation I'll do it, but otherwise, it's not really my thing... I try to give a firm handshake but I don't really care in all honesty - and I could care less whether or not the other person's handshake is firm. It just doesn't matter to me.

Usually I don't give regular handshakes but I have no problem with it if the other person initiates it. Otherwise I usually just give some skin.

And I definitely don't think you learn anything about someone from their handshake.
I'd say that my opinion regarding this is about the same as yours.

As far as the way I do it, I guess it depends on my mood, and the circumstances - I really never stop to think about it. 99% of the time I'd say that I usually just do it about as firm enough as is necessary to complete the formality - which is all it really is.

When I was a teenager, my friend's uncle recovered from a stroke, and would grip your hand really hard, in a friendly way , like he was saying "See, I'm still very strong even though.....". For somebody of his age and medical history, it was impressive.

I think that when being congratulated, or under other special circumstances, people will usually shake hands with more strength and feeling. Most of the time, it's not important.
Breukelen advocaat Reviewed by Breukelen advocaat on . How important is a firm handshake? When I was 5 years old, eye contact was the first thing my dad taught me along with a firm handshake. "you look a man in the eye, whether he is bigger or smaller than you. Stick out your hand into their space before they do. When you grab each others hand, make sure you are the one with the dominant hold. Look him in the eye and introduce yourself loud and clear." I can't remember how many times people complimented my dad and I when I was young. Noone expects a five year old to shake your Rating: 5