There is no respect in forced and/or biased decorum. The decorum should be 100% equal for everyone involved or their should be no enforced decorum. There are people who are not proud of being called white trash or a redneck and do not enjoy it. People are as proud of being called white trash as they are an nword. Both words are hurtful in some contexts and ok in other contexts to the respective people that are labeled as such. The question is - why are some words banned and others not? Why the double standard?